A true love story, in letters

Darling, Vietnam

One soldier’s love letters during war

“Please don’t ever think your letters aren’t very important to me. Besides you being in my heart, that is the next closest thing I have to being with you.”

Jim was a 21-year-old airman when he flew to Vietnam in July 1968, bound for Phu Cat Air Base. His wife, Donna, 20 and pregnant, waited in the Ozarks of Arkansas. Between them: an ocean, a war, and the heartbeat of letters that breathed life into the long days between them.

For more than fifty years those letters sat sealed in an old Air Force bag in an attic, untouched until they were opened again. They echo the letters that helped so many young couples stay stitched together when the war tried to pull them apart.

The story, in four quarters

120 pages of letters, July 1968 to June 1969, in the order they were written.

I

The longest goodbye begins

July 10 – September 29, 1968

II

Love in the long rain

October 2 – December 31, 1968

III

A father made of letters

January 1 – March 31, 1969

IV

The final days of distance

April 1 – June 29, 1969

In his own hand

Three of the original letters, photographed as they are today.

Handwritten letter in blue ink on light-blue stationery with a map of Vietnam, beginning “Hi Honey,”
Stationery with a map of Vietnam
Handwritten letter in black ink on Department of the Air Force letterhead, beginning “My Darling Wife,”
Air Force letterhead
Handwritten letter in blue ink on stationery with a printed portrait and the words “I love you,” beginning “Hi Sweetheart,”
Stationery with her portrait

In his words

Six lines from the letters, as he wrote them.

“As I’ve said many times, your letters are about all that keeps me from going silly, ha.”
The Red House
October 13, 1968
“Honey, if it wasn’t for your letters, I don’t know what I’d do.”
Thanksgiving With A Senator
November 28, 1968
“Darling, your letters are the next thing to the Bible, if you know what I mean.”
Life in Every Word
December 15, 1968
“I hope you got a letter because to me a letter from you is worth more than any gift Sweetheart.”
The Gifts Of Your Letters
January 6, 1969
“If it wasn’t for your letters, life would be miserable for me.”
Worth the Wait
January 12, 1969
“As I’ve said a million times, I don’t know what I’d do if I didn’t have pictures of you and your letters most every day.”
Port Call
June 28, 1969

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